The Korean has hurt
and offended a lot of people through his blog. He does not recognize this
because he feels justified in his humiliation and intimidation of others. To
him, life is a game where there are winners and losers and it justifiable to do
whatever you want even if it means harshly crushing weaker opponents. That's
why he felt so justified in attacking Malcolm Gladwell. It is evident from his
tone when writing about his problem with Gladwell that he really relished and
enjoyed putting a New York Times bestselling author "in his place".
But when gently corrected by Chris Kahn about an error in his own writing, The
Korean sheepishly bowed out of the conversation, downplaying how wrong he
actually was. Because on same level, The Korean knows that the same harsh
judgment that he attacks others with can be used on him. Yet, he refuses to
learn from that and give others the grace that he cowardly requests of them
when he errs. I have read The Korean's blog from the beginning and recognize
now that he is just a bully who gets off on one-upping others. He's not really
interested in the truth about Korea or anything. He just wants to show off how
much he "knows" to feel better about himself. And he will do whatever
he can to assert his own superiority because deep down, he is a very insecure
person who is not willing to look at his own shadow. That's how he is able to
write humiliating posts of people who send him grammatically incorrect emails
and even threaten readers when they disagree with him.
He believes that he
is so superior because he was able to learn English in two years to fluency. I
know of a guy who learned Japanese in one year and got good enough that he was
hired by a Japanese company where they only spoke Japanese. As great as that
is, he is not arrogant and genuinely wants to help people, giving free advice
to others who want to learn as well. Compare that with The Korean who looks
down on and feels justified humiliating native English speakers who don't speak
as well as him because he thinks that it is due to laziness. I have news for
him. Not always. Some public schools in the U.S. are so poorly funded and
staffed that they are like third world countries. A lot of students get passed
even when they lack basic reading and writing skills. But do you think Mr.
Know-it-all recognizes this? No. Because he is so stuck in his ivory tower
believing that everyone has the same privileges and opportunities as him. Not
all Korean parents are able to whisk their son off to America because he has
problems adapting to high school in Korea. The Korean claims to have gotten
good grades and I can believe that, but in that case, most Korean parents would
not be so indulgent as to whisk their son off to America because he has
problems with the Korean school system. He wrote about this and later removed
it from his blog, but it sounded more like an attitude problem on his part than
anything. He also wrote that he scorned the other Korean students at his
American high school for not working hard to learn English as quickly as him,
neglecting the fact that it is their right to learn as they please and he was
not exactly learning for the good of humanity. He had to learn English for his
own SELF-INTEREST so that he could do well in high school and go to a good
college. He even bragged about being privileged to attend a predominantly
Korean high school where he was able to submit a biology exam in Korean and
still get a good grade on it. So he will take full advantage of the
opportunities when they suit him, but look down on others who don't. There is
nothing wrong with wanting to do well, but that does not give you the right to
look down arrogantly on other people and be mean to them as a result of that.
You can water down your writing so that it makes you appear more
"modest", but ultimately, it is what is in your heart and mind that
determines that. If you are truly a modest person, then you wouldn't have to
fumble with your tone so much because your writing would naturally appear that
way. Saying "I don't mean to be immodest" does not take away from
your arrogant tone and people can tell when they read your writing whether you
are being sincere or not. It always comes through.
Ultimately, it comes
down to an abuse of power and a lack of integrity on The Korean's part. Based
on his later re-edits of his blog to present himself more modestly, I really
don't believe that he has the intent to look at himself honestly and be a good
person. He can't see the truth of who he is because he is someone who is very
caught up in his own self-glorification and will abuse his power to get that.
As long as OTHERS see him as a good person, he is satisfied that he is. Even
with all of his legal education that provided a lot of training in critical
thinking, he is unwilling to apply that to his own life and his own self. If
you're not willing to be self-critical, how can you take full responsibility
for your actions? You can't. You're just going to do whatever you want
regardless of the consequences. The Korean has hurt a lot of people through his
blog whether it is through the actual posts or comments section. He has
verbally abused, intimidated, humiliated, and degraded others through his speech
and he is unwilling to take responsibility for that.
He acts like he is
so progressive and so open-minded, but the truth is that he is quite bigoted in
a number of respects. He has tweeted that he hates people from a certain region
of Korea. But more than ethnic, I believe that he is a political bigot at his
core. He claims to be for freedom of speech, yet he is disrespectful and
intimidating to those who disagree with him respectfully. He's an internet
bully who will use his credentials to challenge and threaten others yet
cowardly sneak away when his own errors are brought to light. The Korean is one
of those selfish people who believe they are good because they are nice to
their friends and family and go to church. But how does he treat others that
are not of his circle? Not very nicely based on what I have seen. The people
around him may be oblivious to his flaws because he is so nice to them, so it
is up to others to tell him he is wrong and hold him accountable for that.
That's part of the reason I wrote this post because I believe that if no one says
anything, then The Korean will continue to be as he is, abusing his authority
and hurting other people. I believe that people should be critical about
whatever they read on the web, especially when it comes from an anonymous
source. But people may write all they want. Ultimately, it is up to The Korean
to decide how he will act. As long as he sees something, he can't feign
ignorance. He can dismiss all the criticism as nonsense or he can actually be
self-critical. Whatever the case, I'm pretty sure it will take a while before
he really behaves because old behaviors don't just fall away so quickly. The
Korean is too satisfied to live in his own self-glorified cocoon of Korean
"authority", but I believe that some day, he will have to face his
own darkness with true humility. He has stated before in the comments section
of his blog that he believes that he does not have to apologize for things that
have long past. That somehow time negates all wounds. This is very ironic
coming from a lawyer whose responsibility is to understand the true meaning of
justice. Of course, this is not always practiced and from his own behavior, it
is evident that he has no qualms about abusing his authority and power. It is
so disappointing to see people who have been given the great advantages of a
good education squander it away for their own personal gain and ultimately,
their own moral decline. I really think people like him should not be rewarded.
It would be great if people stopped reading his blog, but I admit that he does
write some interesting things even if I don't always agree with him.
